The following study was compiled using the sermon notes of Charles H. Spurgeon, available as one of the Blue Letter Bible commentaries.
“Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.”
(1 Corinthians 13:7)
The grace of love is absolutely essential to true godliness. So essential is it that if we have everything else, but have not love, it profits us nothing (1 Cor 13:2-3). The absence of love is absolutely fatal to vital godliness. It is common to the everyday life of the people of God. This glorious salvation unto pure love must be grasped by faith, and wrought in us by the operation of the Spirit of God. If we consider salvation to be a little thing, we bring it, as it were, within the sphere of human possibility, but if we set it forth in its true proportions as involving the possession of a pure, loving, elevated state of heart, then we perceive that it is a divine wonder. If love be in any man and abounds, God must have the glory of it, for it certainly wasn’t attained by mere natural effort, but must have been bestowed by that same hand which made the heavens. “The fruit of the Spirit is love…” and the Spirit is ready and willing to bear fruit in us also.
Love’s Difficulties
FIRST, notice the multitude of love’s difficulties. It must bear all things, believe all things, hope all things, and endure all things. When the grace of God comes into a man he is born at once to love. He that loves is born of God, and he that is born of God loves. God has put within you a new life, but the old ;life seeks to smother it. You will find a severe struggle to master yourself. I do not think I need to say more upon the difficulties of love. I am sure that every person knows how extreme these difficulties can be, and that we require superlative grace if we are to master them.
Love’s Triumphs
SECONDLY, observe the triumph of love’s labor. It does each of the four things: it bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things—and it does them effectively.
When we say that love “bears all things” what the word means in the Greek is to “cover”. In other words, true love refuses to hold others to their faults; it has no wish to see faults. I wish, brothers and sisters, that we could all imitate the pearl oyster. When a hurtful particle intrudes itself into the oyster’s shell, it vexes it. However, the oyster cannot eject the evil, so instead it covers it with a precious substance extracted out of its own life, by which it turnes the intruder into a pearl. Oh, if we could do so with the provocations we receive from our fellow Christians, so that pearls of patience, gentleness, long-suffering, and forgiveness might be bred within us by that which else had harmed us.
When we say that love “believes all things” we mean that, regarding our fellow Christians, love believes the best of them. If I did not believe in my brothers I would not profess to be one of them. I believe that with all their faults they are the best people in the world, and that, although the church of God is not perfect, yet she is the bride of One who is. I have the utmost respect for the church for the Lord’s sake.
Regarding our unbelieving friends, “love believes all things” means that we believe God can save them. Love believes that the precious blood of Christ can redeem the bondslaves of sin and Satan, and break their iron chains. Love believes that the power of the Holy Spirit can change a heart of granite into a heart of flesh.
When we say that love “hopes all things” we mean that love never despairs. Love believes in good things yet to come in her fellow-men, even if she cannot believe in any present good in them. If your brother has been very angry with you without a cause, hope that you will win him over and set about the task. Never despair of your fellow Christians.
The last triumph of love is in “enduring all things” by which I understand to be a patient perseverance in loving. This is perhaps the hardest work of all, for many people can be affectionate and patient for a time, but the task is to hold on year after year. Blessed be God, the love that Christ gives us endures all things. As his love endured to the end, so does the love which the Spirit works in us endure to the end. Behold the cross! See the patient Sufferer and that ribald multitude: they thrust out the tongue, they sneer, they jest, they blaspheme; and there he hangs, triumphant in his patience, conquering the world, and death, and hell by enduring “all things”.
Love’s Source
LASTLY, let us consider the sources of love’s energy. The Holy Ghost alone can teach men how to love and give them power to do so. Love’s art is learned at no other school but at the feet of Jesus, where the Spirit of love rests on those who learn of him.
Note the four sweet companions of love. There are with her tenderness that “bears all things”, faith that “believes all things”, hope that “hopes all things”, and patience which “endures all things”. The one who has this tenderness, faith, hope, and patience has a brave host of graces to guard him, and he has no reason to be afraid. Most of all, love finds her life from the wounds of Christ. Love can bear, believe, hope, and endure because Christ has borne, believed, hoped, and endured for her. When I consider the cross of Jesus my response should be: I must love.
Love makes us love; love bought us, sought us, and brought us to the Savior’s feet, and it shall henceforth constrain us to deeds which else would be impossible. Oh to be distracted from selfishness by the love of Christ, and maddened into self-oblivion by a supreme passion for the Crucified. I know not how otherwise to put my thoughts into words so that they may hint at my burning meaning. May the Lord of love look into your very eyes with those eyes which once were red weeping over human sin: may he touch your hands with those hands that were nailed to the cross, and impress the blessed nailmarks upon your feet, and then may he pierce your heart till it pour forth a life for love, and flow out in streams of kind desires, and generous deeds, and holy scrifices for God and for his people.
God grant it, for Jesus’ sake. Amen.
Debi C.--Portland, Oregon says
February 14, 2012 at 6:33 amHow selfish and stupid of me to have ever considered that I had an ounce of love in me that was not put there by the very Spirit of the Living God (“If love be in any man and abounds, God must have the glory of it, for it certainly wasn’t attained by mere natural effort, but must have been bestowed by that same hand which made the heavens.”)
I was reading this sermon just as my husband said something that irritated me. He didn’t mean to irritate me, but what he said just rubbed me the wrong way, and there I was, reading about: “When we say that love “believes all things” we mean that, regarding our fellow Christians, love believes the best of them.”
I pray that my heart and mind will be at the feet of Jesus all day, allowing HIS love to work so generously in my heart in all things and relationships.
Today is my Monday.
Have a good Tuesday, everyone.
Debi
velda rene burns says
February 14, 2012 at 7:15 amAmen. That’s all I can say.
steve morrow says
February 14, 2012 at 7:57 amRevelation 2:4 Never the less I have some what against thee because thou hast left thy first love
Deuteronomy 7:9 Know therefore that the LORD thy GOD HE is GOD the faithful GOD which keepeth covenant and mercy with them that love HIM and keep HIS commandments to a thousand generations
Deuteronomy 11:22 For if you shall diligently keep all these commandments which I command you to do them to love the LORD your GOD to walk in all HIS ways and to cleave unto HIM
Psalm 119:167 My soul hath kept thy testimonies and I love them exceedingly
Psalm 119:119 Thou puttest away all the wicked of the earth like dross therefore I love thy testimonies
Proverbs 8:21 That I may cause those that love ME to inherit substance and I will fill their treasures
John 13:34&35 A new commandment I give unto you that you love one another as I have loved you that you also love one another(35) By this shall all men know that you are MY disciples if you have love one to another
Ephesians 5:25&26 Husbands love your wives even as CHRIST also loved the church and gave HIMSELF for it (26)That HE might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word
John 14:15 If you love ME keep MY commandments
John 14:21 He that hath MY commandments and keepeth them he it is that loveth me and he that loveth ME shall be loved of MY FATHER and I will love him and will manifest MYSELF to him
Mark 12:30 AND THOU SHALT LOVE THE LORD THY GOD WITH ALL THY HEART AND WITH ALL THY SOUL AND WITH ALL THY MIND AND WITH ALL THY STRENGTH this is the first commandment
James 1:12 Blessed is the man that endureth temptation for when he is tried he shall receive the crown of life which the LORD hath promised to those who love HIM
2 Thessalonians 2:10 And with all deceiveableness of unrighteousness in them that perish because they received not the love of the truth that they might be saved
1 Corinthians 13:5&6 Doth not behave itself unseemly seeketh not her own is not easily prvoked thinketh no evil (6) rejoiceth not in iniquity but rejoiceth in the truth
John 15:9&10 As the FATHER hath loved ME so have I loved you continue ye in MY love (10) IF you keep MY commandments you shall abide in MY love even as I have kept MY FATHERS commandments and abide in HIS love
1 John 1:5 But whoso keepeth HIS word in HIM verily is the love of GOD perfected hereby know we that we are in HIM
1 John 5:14 And this is the confidence that we have in HIM that if we ask anything according to HIS will HE heareth us
John 14:14 If you shall ask anything in MY name I will do it
LOVIG THE LORD
Victoria Bryant says
February 14, 2012 at 11:48 amIf the people of God would live out of the Fruit of the Spirit-it would not only impact the body of believers but the world also bringing glory and honor to God.
Teresa says
February 14, 2012 at 12:49 pmEvery day I can see the “shortness” of love in my heart! It’s the desire of my heart to be more like Jesus, having “love without hypocrisy”. I believe that pride is what keeps us from loving others as we should. I once took 1 Corinthians 13 and a dictionary, and wrote out the meanings of the terms used, like “suffers long”, “kind”, “envy”, etc., and it really opened my eyes to the areas where I need to seek the Lord for changes in my innermost being! (Kept that one taped to my computer for a long time!)
For me, I try to keep a perspective of “hope in all things” – for change in others, but also for change in me…”that He Who has begun a good work in [me] will complete it until the day of Jesus Christ”! I rest in that! Praise God for His faithfulness and mercy toward us in our weakness!
randy roberts says
February 14, 2012 at 2:21 pmThank you so much. I have been being led by the Spirit as to what is important and fundamental in life. Your thoughts have filled in a lot of pieces. It really is wonderful foundation that we can build our walk upon. No longer dead works, rather, living in the Spirit and walking in love, and now your thoughts have given me a template to help me to practice and improve in this endeavor.
Rick says
February 14, 2012 at 7:52 pmOh yes, this is the key. We feel so vulnerable, that we have to protect our heart. We forget that we are protecting our carnal perspective of self, and thus don’t realize the power of Love. It is the carnal self that is fragile- not God.
Helen says
February 14, 2012 at 8:53 pmWow! So true. I’m surely convicted, I need help on how I love others, especially those that challenge us. Praise God for HIS perfect love.